🧱 Cussed Holding — When You Refuse to Shut a Clearly Dropping Commerce
🎯 The Lesson
You enter a commerce.
It begins going in opposition to you.
Cease loss is correct there… however as an alternative of accepting the loss, you assume:
“Let me give it some house.”
Then:
“It should come again.”
Then:
“I’ll simply widen the cease… as soon as.”
That is cussed holding — the behavior of staying in a shedding commerce lengthy after logic has left the chart.
🧠 What Actually Occurs
Your mind treats taking a loss like admitting you have been incorrect.
And people hate being incorrect.
So as an alternative of closing the commerce, you begin negotiating with the market — although the market by no means negotiates again.
You maintain as a result of:
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You wish to keep away from ache
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You hope the chart will reverse
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You’re emotionally connected
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You don’t wish to settle for accountability
However cussed trades not often return.
They normally develop, sink deeper, and take a bit of your confidence with them.
💡 The Repair: Settle for Small Losses Early
A cease loss isn’t an insult — it’s a security valve.
Closing a shedding commerce rapidly just isn’t weak point.
It’s emotional maturity.
Skilled merchants maintain losses small not as a result of they by no means get it incorrect — however as a result of they by no means keep incorrect.
Ask your self:
“If I wasn’t already on this commerce, would I enter it proper now?”
If the reply isn’t any — shut it.
Straight away.
🔑 Sensible Rule: The 1× Rule
If worth hits your stop-loss stage — even mentally — you exit.
Not widen.
Not wait.
Not pray.
Execute the plan as written.
This single rule saves extra accounts than any indicator ever will.
🚀 Takeaway
Stubbornness feels sturdy within the second however weak within the outcomes.
Profitable merchants don’t defend their ego — they defend their capital.
Lower the loss. Clear the thoughts. Transfer on to the subsequent clear setup.
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